By Railey Molinario, the Love Educator
We all want to have thriving relationships that inspire and support us through our journey in life. In order to have a long lasting motivating relationship that stands the test of time, we must become a Power Couple. It means to have a relationship where two people are deeply in Love and have cultivated Relationship Intelligence.
Love is the foundation of a successful relationship and Relationship Intelligence is the road map that will guide you throughout the ups and downs life has to offer. So what is Relationship Intelligence and how can it save our relationships from falling apart?
1. Self awareness is the ability to identify and understand your own emotions and how they affect you. Through self-awareness you recognize how your feelings can help or hinder you from reaching your goals. You become aware of your emotional tendencies, strengths, and weaknesses.
2. Self management takes things one step further: it's the ability to manage emotions in a way that allows you to accomplish a task, reach a goal, or provide a benefit. It includes the quality of self-control, which is the ability to control your emotional reactions.
3. Relationship awareness is the ability to accurately perceive the feelings of your partner and understand how those feelings influence behavior. In order to achieve relationship awareness, you must be empathetic, ready to see and feel things from the perspective of your partner.
4. Relationship management allows you to get the most out of your relationship with your partner. Instead of trying to force them into action, it allows you to use insight and persuasion to motivate them to act. It also includes the ability to strengthen the level of trust between you and them.
How Relationships Intelligence can save your relationship.
By understanding and managing your emotions you are better able to act effectively with others, especially your partner. This means shorter arguments, fewer misunderstandings and overall less stress. In its place you will cultivate more joy, peace and positive experiences. A happy and healthy relationship requires two happy and healthy individuals. Invest in your relationship today by investing in yourself and master Relationship Intelligence in your relationship. Then and only then can your relationship THRIVE.
Ready to take your relationship to the next level and create the thriving life and relationship you deserve? Start with your Consultation so we can analyse your relationship goals.